I wrote to my friend, this is the day that the Lord hath made, rejoice and be glad in it
Today is a ‘first’ in that I’m going to include material from a meeting that my partner Francoise has experienced when she went for a check-up with her damaged wrist this morning. She met ‘by chance’ someone in the waiting room of the RUH Fracture Clinic so this could be a bit of an example as to how to grasp the opportunity and help if there is appropriateness.
Accident Support and Advice
Francoise writes: I talked to the couple before being called myself. The conversation started when they were talking about a French word. I confirmed it was. The man said he had been to France many times, so I told him I was French.
So when I went back to the green room, the couple were still there, waiting their turn to be seen. So I sat next to the woman and asked her how she was and what’s happened to her. She said that she was in a car driving, and she had a car accident. The opposite car coming was driven by a priest, and he was looking at his phone at the time and then banged into her car.
I asked her, I see you have a plaster so what happened to your arm?
She said, I got two fractures on my arm.
I saw she had a bruised eye. She said she had about four broken ribs and huge, huge bruises on her leg and sizes and probably other parts of her body. I think she mentioned bruises under her breast and her back, because of a shock.
When I was talking to her. She said, ‘Oh, I can’t concentrate’.
And I said, Do you have a headache?
And she said, Yes.
And I said, Did you have a whiplash,
And she said, Yes.
I said, well, if you have a headache now you must mention it to the doctor, because sometimes it doesn’t come the first day when they see you at the triage. It comes afterwards. So you must mention it. And then I started to tell her how I dealt with my wrist.
So I gave her the information about the homoeopathy injury 30 C to take, and I gave her the name of the company (Ainsworth) in London to go or write to order from them.I told her about Arnica, homoeopathy and Arnica cream to really put all over her bruises. I told her about the comfrey oil I massage my wrist everyday with.
I said they are different qualities of arnica cream brands. I gave her two examples. I said for her ribs to use comfrey oil , have a look on the internet and use only the organic one.
As I was talking with her, I noticed that her husband or partner was actually very nice. They don’t live together. They want to move together. He lives near Cheddar , and she lives somewhere more south, in Somerset, and they want to get to live together somewhere.
So he was saying what he did. For three years, he did tao training, which is a kind of meditation and way of being in the present, and really concentrates on thought and the present. And so he was quite tuned in. And when I was talking about Arnica, he knew about it.
So then I was talking to her how she felt, and she said, I have a lot of flashback of the accident. So I said to her, you need to get off the trauma you are in now, the emotional trauma, otherwise you’re not going to be able to start to heal.
And I said, you can be helped if you take rescue remedy in drops. That will help your mind to calm down and be able to relax more and start to deal with it in a different way.
I think her trauma was quite emotional. So I told them about EFT. She had heard about it. She kind of knew about it. I said, ‘look on the internet, there are loads of informations’.
And do it because it will help you to go over this trauma state you are in, if you don’t move out of this repeating in your mind, the sequence of accident you are programming your mind to say you are in an accident state and will not be able to move out of it and start to heal.
And I think she understood that he did.
And I said, when you start to relax more and think about a more positive state, your brain will trigger some different type of chemicals in the body to start the healing, because you’ve been shocked to the core of yourself, to the molecules of yourself, and it’s within yourself, and you need to move this.
If you repeat, always this trauma, you’re producing the same chemicals again and again in a negative way, and your body will not be able to start to heal.
So I think she understood that. Her headache seems to be very uncomfortable. She said, I can’t really concentrate on what you are saying. So I wrote down all the homoeopathy, the rescue remedy, everything I was telling her, I wrote it down so that she can look into it.
Also, she said she was constipated. I said, yes, that’s, that’s part of the trauma. Your body is in shock, frozen like that, and not functioning properly.
So I said, look, eat a lot of greens. You know, go on a green diet, a lot of green every meal.
And the husband said …. and prunes. I said, prunes are great, but anything to help you. If you haven’t gone to the loo for a week, which is really bad. So if you really need to deal with that.
I forgot later on, when I was in the bus and was thinking about what I said, there is, a plant in a powder form, you can buy in a chemist. It’s quite well known, very well used and only made with plant, and it’s really good for constipation, so the natural remedy works very well.
She was hurting. She was in pain. She was really not be able at the moment to deal with it. The husband was trying to assist but he was a bit out of his depth as well. So they said, thank you very much. That’s very helpful. And they understood everything.
I said, really take the homoeopathy, because I did it and it does work. You know, the bruises with Arnica. Phone the company, talk to them, tell them what you have, and they might be able to help you further.
I had to talk very quickly, because they could have been called into the doctor any minute. So I wanted to tell, tell them everything I could to help her to deal with it, and I said, the other thing you need to do is to get out of the mindset that you are a victim because you are in trauma mode, and you still are in a mindset victim.
And until you move out of that, you’re not going to be able to start to heal. So I gave her a pet talk about how to think positive, see herself being healed well, walking all over the place, jumping, dancing, anything she wants to do in her mind every day to help her to get to health.
I said, you need to take control of your situation. You need to take control of your health and being responsible for what you can do to yourself.
The body has such an incredible power of healing if you give it the right time and space and with the right remedies, you will heal. You will heal. You’ll be healed throughout, and you’ll be well. So I spoke to get her out of this vibration of trauma.
So well done Francoise for jumping in voluntarily. My view is that all chances should be taken. The worst that can happen is nothing and any opportunity to assist another human being should be taken with alacrity in the spirit of service.
All really sound and great advice,—- and Phil Mollon, energy psychotherapist, has some excellent videos on Youtube that include EFT and other helpful energy techniques.